You sound kind of depressive @wakeupkitty - that's not good. You should not resign - I didn't have many comments neither, before I joined the league, but now I spend more time in replying than in writing own comments or even posting.
I am no author, better said I prefer to blog about my daily life and post my photos. So, I cannot say what you could do better. Maybe one of the old members and writers could help if you contact them via commenting on their blogs.
Hope you make a good decision and get a better internet soon, because I see the slow connection as your main problem π€
!BEER