Ha!! And I thought my inlaws were weird.
It is difficult to see the positive aspect of a person when they are being a completely not nice person (I am retraining myself to use some words.) And sometime the bad aspect completely overshadow the goodqualities to the point that people no longer see it. But you acknowledge and appreciate that persons help. Kudos to you. ❤️☮️
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Yeah, she is troublesome unlike every other of her siblings that are even her seniors in the family
most times I do ask myself, why is she still in the other hand very helpful to me?.
I then also answer this same question to myself;
because naturally, I'm a patience person, I study people to know when and how to follow them,
I most times neglect her negative behaviors and still do so many good things to her, like giving her some cooked food, giving her some clothings of mine,
even during her recently held traditional marriage, all her elder sisters declined assisting her to market for her purchasees,
but I carefully volunteered 5 days doing that with her because she is not a socialite, allowing her alone to do that, may cause shame to the family.
Mostly my husband being their eldest, it may be embarrassing because she can't get it right if left alone. She may not know how to go about it,
I did all that for her, but not up to a month she's already showing me this negative behavior. I'm always applying wisdom when it comes to her.
let's keep being good, they're seeds we will also reap now and in the future, even to our children..
Thank you for sharing your thoughts.