Why are you confronting anyone ? they explained what happened and you didn't like it why is that their problem? It clearly states why you are being downvoted and what happened.
End of story.
You can now go and cuss people out and do your thing but we ALL know how it begin and why. There isn't much more to discuss. Yes, that post landed in the StemGeeks tribe we already went through this. It didn't belong there according to the community. Not my rules but that is the way it goes. Have fun confronting people when we clearly can see why you are getting downvotes. That will end well lol....