Naah...
Gathering personal identification and data is authoritative at it's very foundation.
you ARE MISSING THE CRIME THING... and if for you anonymous crime is part of decentralization (never said you did... just guessing).. then you are wrong. sorry... at least this is my view.
Plus you are confusing decentralization with governance... which DAC's will solve one day. I don't which for centralized and monopolized attitudes to take the world... I don't like those too! But I think that, decentralization has to still evolve... in the crypto world...
A LOT to be honestly secure for every family! Currently it just causes more hassle for people that don't know how to deal with it, than it solves stuff for the real world.
Using social activity to experiment on the next phase, will work towards the next findings on how to find the best solution.